How Do I Find Girls Who Like Me For Me?


“Hey Vin,

Had some questions and frustrations that I was hoping that you could shed some light on. I’m an older guy 33, that is relatively inexperienced with women (I’ve dated a few girls).

My thing is, I’ve decided to go back to school to finish my degree. Now that I’m more mature, I get the attention that I wished I’d had ten to twelve years ago. How do you deal with haters?

Basically guys that resent you for your success?

Also, how do you spot and find girls that are high quality that are not just about hooking up and want you for ‘you.’ In addition how do you have relationships with multiple women like these at the same time.

Basically, I want to make up for lost time. I want to see for myself what it is like to have 2-3 girlfriends with HIGH compliance. Thanks, and the newsletters are great.



>>> Hey Andre,

First question first: Make friends, not enemies. “Haters” are haters. Turn them into your friends and they’ll HELP you meet girls – Not hinder you.

Second question: Girls who hookup with you, LIKE you. There’s no other way for a girl to like you… Except for you.

Put it this way: Even if she’s hooking up with you for your money, she still rationalizes it to herself, and tells herself she likes you.

So basically, ALL women are high quality women who like you for you. The only thing that changes is:

A) If she’s a good FIT for your personality.

Which makes her high quality.

B) How YOU think about her love for you.

Because the real problem is how you think about women. You’ve got some beliefs MOST MEN have – That a “hook up” isn’t “real” attraction.

Which is bullshit. If you two have sex, it’s because you were into each other. And attracted.

If you want a quick way to shift your beliefs, check out The Pandoras Box:

The Pandoras Box

Otherwise, experience will cure this bad belief.

As for your multiple girlfriend question, I’m sure I’ll be covering that later in this email.

And three questions is just gettin’ greedy 😉

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