MY INITIAL THOUGHTS:
As someone who starting off with Mystery Method, I would have to take notes and make cheat sheet and spend time memorizing answers. Now-a-days I’m more into natural game were I’m just being myself and being in the moment… Pandora’s Box almost brings me back to the Mystery days… I spent my nights this week trying to understand TIDJRI and then trying to memorize the different strategies.
Which is kind of cool. Cause it’s a challenge. There are definitely certain types of girls that respond to me better then others and this whole past weekend I found myself excited to go out cause now I was armed with this new set of ammo.
REAL LIFE APPLICATION:
The other day I hung out with a girl that I know is VERY sexually experienced. (this is the 1st time we hung out by the way, I met her at a party two weeks ago) Not in a slutty way but in a “I want to be a sex columnist” and have already tried everything you can think of, kind of way. Note, I am the total opposite. I’ve only had sex with a few girls and when I make love, to me, it’s special and very important. I like cuddling, hand holding, sensual touching and sharing deep thoughts…
When we hung out sex was inevitable, however because of what I read I did not cuddle with her and do all the usual stuff I would do. I honestly felt like it saved me. After we were done I played it cool and could tell that she responded well to this. The chemistry between us never died and I’m hanging out with her again next weekend etc.
The big issue for me is that she could tell that something was off. Because of what I read I catered my personality to fit a certain role. At one point she even stopped me and asked “what is that look?”. That look from me was the look of “Wow, I’m really into you”. It was me not being in the moment but rather stuck in my head trying to think about what to do next. According to Vin though with this type of girl that last thing you want to is project that you are really into her, i.e. keep it fun. So I just played it off. That’s what makes me very curious about Pandora’s Box.
I pretty much sold out my own personality to cater to this girl. So will it work and will I continue a relationship with her or could she sense that I was acting? Would I have done better if I just acted like myself? Is having sex with this girl enough to keep me happy if I have to adapt my behavior? Also am I always going to feel this way or as I get more and more experienced dealing with new types of girls will acting more dominate and less caring for a certain type of girl eventually feel more natural?
Regardless, this is the 1st thing that’s come out in a while that has really made me think.